Book Releases

Close to Heaven: A Colorado High Country Christmas (Colorado High Country #5) —
Rain and Joe's story is out! Head back to Scarlet Springs for a very snowy Christmas story, complete with a look at the history of Scarlet Springs. There are sexy times, as well as a lot of humor. You can grab your copy here: Kindle Nook iBooks Kobo Smashwords Paperback

About Me

My photo
I grew up in Colorado at the foot of the Rocky Mountains, then lived in Denmark and traveled throughout Europe before coming back to Colorado. I have two adult sons, whom I cherish. I started my writing career as a columnist and investigative reporter and eventually became the first woman editor of two different papers. Along the way, my team and I won numerous state and several national awards, including the National Journalism Award for Public Service. In 2011, I was awarded the Keeper of the Flame Lifetime Achievement Award for Journalism. Now I write historical romance and contemporary romantic suspense.

Members

Seductive Musings

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Trouble with wireless/More thoughts on sex in books

So, we got wireless in our town. The entire town is a hot spot. I'm just having a bit of trouble figuring out how to make it work with blogger, which is why I haven't posted recently. But I've gotten this far, so that's exciting! It's going to be great to have faster access to the 'Net and to VoIP programs like Skype. I do some serious Skyping to Europe, and the lag time on dial-up is hideous!

I've moved on to the next chapter in UNLAWFUL CONTACT — Chapter 18, to be specific — and will be writing lots more sex. Yes, it's that part of the story where they finally get to steep themselves in passion for a while. I'm enjoying the writing, which is nice.

Until recently I would have said that there really can't be too much sex in a romance novel. And then I read a book that had too much sex. Every scene felt like a construct to generate another sex scene, like a porn movie where every little thing becomes the prelude to more sex. While the sex was reasonably well written, after a while, it became... dull. I didn't care if he was giving it to her again or not.

I'm thinking ahead for this story, thinking of some fun scenarios I haven't written. Extreme Exposure had snow sex and jiggle stick sex. Hard Evidence had shower sex. So what's been in my head for this book is hot tub sex and mirror sex (and maybe some pearl vibrator sex).

What are your favorite sexual fantasies in romances? Oral sex? Threesomes? Bondage? Rough sex?

Come on, spill!

For me, bondage can only be of the vanilla variety — no hardcore BDSM. And I'm not interested in writing or reading anal sex. But rough sex and oral sex and showers and vibrators. Yum. Mild bondage. Mirrors. Maybe even a home gym scene. (Haven't you ever thought those weight benches resemble stirrups or am I by my pervvy self on this score?)

Love to hear your thoughts. Get dirty with me!

9 comments:

Debbie H said...

Hi,Pamela

I'm with you. No anal, vanilla bondage. Some of my secret fantasies besides rough sex, mirrors, etc would be on horseback or on a motorcycle (not moving), hadn't thought about the gym equipment, now I will though! On KMM's board we were discussing how looking a produce would never be the same. Cucumbers and squashes now take on a new meaning. *BWEG*

I'm so glad you are back in the writing swing and things are so much better at work.

Hugs,
Debbie H

Joanie said...

Pamela, I walked upstairs to the DH's gym and I gotta say, hon, it aint really doin' it for me..

It's kinda whiffy and spartan and not conducive to getting it on.

I am totally into showers, the ocean, um, kitchen and or bathroom benches, um, car hoods, um, need I go on?

Bit of being dominated and a little rough, as long as there is a connection between the characters.
Sex for it's own sake, gee, that would be gratuitious right?
Anyway, that is not my cuppa tea.
And this little black duck is not interested in earning her brown wings, or reading about it, yucky!

Prolly shouldn't have replied after too much wine, but there you have it. J xx

Joanie said...

P.S. That whole word verification thing is a tad difficult after a nice bottle of red...

Shouldn't it be letter verification?
I mean that is not a word right?
i think you should know this stuff...I am sure it should be "Letter Verification".

Okay, I'll go now...

Kristi said...

Hmmm.. I am not in it for the "sex for no reason" sex. I have read books with "too much sex" (ha! but, not many!!!)

No anal for me, although I know some who don't mind it (thankfully, my DH is not interested...) I would have to say that the place doesn't really matter to me -- as long as the connection and passion are there. Secret fantasies? Probably like DebbieH, I have a thing for "alpha males" which are the take-control and lead the way guys. But, I don't want them to be disrespectful, do you know what I'm saying? Rough is good as long as they aren't into pain...

So that's that, I guess...

xoxo,
K

(HA! My word verification is "Zalehoe"... LMAO...)

Nes said...

Okay here goes... I like the ocean, hood of a car, in the car, anyplace where you can get caught, tables, kitchen counters, against the wall, with toys or without. I'd only share the toys if I know the person well enough.

Threesomes and groups turn me on. BTDT. I like being watched and watching. Anal, yes done that. Fucked senseless I could hardly walk the next day, yes, experienced it. I'm not into S&M or BDSM. Light bondage is sweet like a blindfold or being tied up but no other scary shit.

I especially like oral sex. Recieving and giving. I like it when a man plays with my clit while he's fucking me.

And I like guys who takes control. I especially love it when I'm being fucked doggy style and my hair gets pulled back and he's gently kissing and biting my neck while playing with my clit at the same time.

Ok, sorry if I sounded a bit coarse but hey, we're talking sex here.

I've tried most of my fantasies and I've never regretted them.

But no, I don't want anal in books unless it's the Penthouse letters I'm reading or that the H/H are doing threesomes and getting it on during an orgy. Stupid huh? LOL.

Hope to catch you in chat soon! MWAH!

Hmmm...

Hood of the car — that's pretty sexy! Hadn't thought of that.

The ocean — that's amazing, too. Too bad there's no ocean in Colorado! If I put my characters into a mountain stream, the hero's dick will shrink so much she'll have to send a search and rescue squad to find it.

Tables, kitchen counters, the floor, the wall, hot tubs — BTDT and love it.

Nes, I'm with you on everything except the anal and the threesomes. I guess I should say I HAVE tried the threesome thing and found one too many women involved. I love chicks, but not that way. If it were a threesome with two guys, it might have been different. LOL!

And I love having my hair pulled back like that, too. That's the kind of mild domination I like — a guy who's confident enough to be in command and be a tiny bit forceful (but not damaging).

If my mother reads this entry, she'll die. LOL!

Thanks for the suggestions. There are a couple of special cars in this story -- Aimee, can you see Marc & Sophie on the Jag or the 55 Chevy? -- so that's an idea I might just steal from y'all.

Joanie, I LMAO at the "letter verification" thing. Wish your wine were in my bloodstream.

Kristi, nice to see you here!

DebbieH — We had this convo via e-mail, but I had to laugh about the veggies too. As I said, I laugh at the medieval romances that refer to the "plum-sized head." Which variet of plum?

Libby Loo said...

Two words: Buttah cream.

*EG*

Aimee said...

Totally the JAG!!!!!!!!!!!!

wOOt!!!!!!!

Post a Comment

Follow Me

Search

Seduction Game

Follow by Email

Blog Archive

Labels

Favorite Writing Quotes


"I am an artist. I am here to live out loud."
—Emile Zola

"I am tomorrow, or some future day, what I establish today. I am today what I established yesterday or some previous day."
—James Joyce

"Let other pens dwell on guilt and misery."
—Jane Austen

"Writers are those for whom writing is more difficult that it is for others."
—Ernest Hemingway

"When I write, I feel like an armless, legless man with a crayon in his mouth."
—Kurt Vonnegut

"The ability of writers to imagine what is not the self, to familiarize the strange and mystify the familiar is the test of their power."
—Toni Morrison

"No tears in the author, no tears in the reader."
—Robert Frost.

"I'm a writer. I give the truth scope."
—the character of Chaucer in
A Knight's Tale